LITTLE BACKPOCKET GUIDE TO
Safer Sex Work
This guide is for anyone, of any gender or sexuality, who does or is thinking about doing sex work. It’s designed to support your wellbeing in the most holistic sense possible.
In the guide, you’ll find tips for staying safer while you work and looking after your mental, physical, and emotional health. Sex work is work, and like any job there can be ups and downs. This guide is here to give you the tools to navigate them.
Sex work is a broad term, and it can mean different things for different people. When we say sex work, we mean any consensual exchange of sexual services for money, goods, or other benefits. That includes all types of work from full service to sugaring and stripping. As well as advice for specific kinds of sex work, this guide contains basic safety and wellness advice that could be useful for anyone – regardless of the kind of sex working they are doing or thinking about doing.
✺ This guide was produced in close collaboration with sex workers, who have informed it at every stage of its development. We’d like to thank the sex workers – of different genders, backgrounds, and professions – who worked with us to shape this guide with their insights, experiences, and knowledge.
Resources
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Sex worker-led organisations
✺ Trans Hookers Resistance Network (THORN)
✺ National Ugly Mugs (NUM)
✺ English Collective of Prostitutes (ECP)
✺ New Zealand Prostitutes’ Collective (NZPC)
✺ Sex Workers Advocacy and Resistance Movement (SWARM)
✺ European Sex Workers’ Rights Alliance (ESWRA)
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The law and your rights
✺ Release.org - Resources on sex work and the law, including your rights as an indoor and outdoor worker
✺ English Collective of Prostitutes (ECP) - Multilingual information about your rights, including during police and immigration raids
✺ Queers Beyond Borders - Resource for queer migrants moving to or across Europe, including details on housing, asylum, healthcare, sex and connections, and mental health support for several major cities
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Sexual health
✺ A search tool to find NHS sexual health clinics: www.nhs.uk/nhs-services/sexual-health-services/find-a-sexual-health-clinic
✺ If you live in London, you can order a free at-home STI testing kit here: www.shl.uk
✺ If you live in certain other regions of the UK, you can order a free at-home STI testing kit through SH:24. See here for a list of eligible regions: www.sh.uk
sh24.org.uk✺ A guide to DoxyPEP, including how to access it: queerhealth.info/lbgt/doxypep
✺ Information on HIV PrEP: prepster.info
✺ Information on HIV PEP: tht.org.uk/hiv/protection/pep-post-exposure-prophylaxis-hiv
✺ Information on sexual health vaccines available through the NHS: queerhealth.info/vaccines
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Info for trans masculine people
✺ Transmasculine Guide to Sex Work by Jack Parker
✺ Advice about starting sex work by Eddy edftmxxx
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Drug and alcohol support
✺ A search tool for finding drug and alcohol support services: talktofrank.com/get-help/find-support-near-you
✺ Antidote, drug and alcohol support services for LGBTQ+ people: londonfriend.org.uk/antidote/
✺ Information and support services for chemsex (Dean St, London): www.dean.st/chems/
✺ A guide to safer chillouts and reducing risks with chemsex: queerhealth.info/lbgt/chillouts
✺ Harm reduction booklets focused on common club drugs: queerhealth.info/sdc4all
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Finances
✺ SWARM Tax Advice and Support (request a copy by email)
✺ Research and information on debanking, by National Ugly Mugs (NUM)
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Screening
✺ A database of bad clients by NUM: nationaluglymugs.org/num-tools-and-how-to-use-them
✺ An international sex worker-led app for checking client information: www.clienteye.app
✺ a “Warnings & Wasters” thread on the Support And Advice For Escorts (SAAFE) message board
✺ The Dancers Resource: an app where strippers can post reviews of their workplace
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Safety and Privacy
✺ Tips for removing metadata from your photos: tonfotos.com/articles/remove-metadata-from-photo/
✺ ‘Safety and Privacy for Online Sex Workers’ report by Beyond the Gaze
✺ A loud personal alarm designed to deter an attacker and make anyone feel safe and secure
✺ The “Buddy Link Up” thread on the SAAFE forum
✺ Beyond the Gaze’s Buddying Arrangements resource
✺ The Little Backpocket Guide To Kink & Consent: queerhealth.info/lbgt/kink
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Disclosure
✺ Help for deciding if and when you should tell people about your sex work: respectqld.org.au/telling-people-you-are-a-sex-worker
✺ Practical tips for telling people you do or have done sex work: www.burnettfoundation.org.nz/articles/culture/touching-tips-auntie-gayle-talks-sex-work
Credits
RESEARCHED AND PUBLISHED BY
The Love Tank CIC
WRITTEN BY
Dan Udy, PHD
EDITED BY
Dr Benjamin Weil
Dr Will Nutland
ILLUSTRATIONS BY
Stephanie Jade
DESIGN BY
Richard Kahwagi
With thanks also to the sex workers and collectives of sex workers – including THORN – who shared their wisdom and experiences with us throughout the process of creating this guide.